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David Kane posted a status
"I'm sure we all miss our sons and daughters. 18 days in and haven't heard a word. I hope they will allow him a phone call."
Nov 24, 2011
David Kane commented on E.G. - ND's Creator/Admin's group Navy Boot Camp
"It's not really possible for me to go to Scott's graduation Jan 6 (ironically was the day of my induction 45 yrs. ago) Had back surgery and can't handle a long ride. I just wanted to know if any of the DADS made that trip and how it…"
Nov 22, 2011
David Kane and NavyDads Group Admin, Gary are now friends
Nov 21, 2011
David Kane joined E.G. - ND's Creator/Admin's group
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Nov 20, 2011
David Kane left a comment for NavyDads Co-Admin, Jim
"Hi Jim, Thanks for your kind words. I certainly hope it comes to that. I would have felt more confident if he had heeded my advice. I tried to do so in a very calm way about everything I went through in the Army (1966) but we were all TERRIFIED at…"
Nov 19, 2011
NavyDads Group Admin, Gary left a comment for David Kane
"My son had similar sleeping habits prior to boot camp. RTC will no doubt fix that and he will learn the ways and to do what needs to be done to the best of his abilities. The one huge difference is that it's not just about himself anymore but…"
Nov 19, 2011
David Kane left a comment for NavyDads Group Admin, Gary
"Hi Gary, Thanks for your support. Yeah, he did say, he got NO sleep the first 48. He insisted on keeping up the hours he liked which was going to bed around 4 and sleeping the day away. I mentioned about his biological clock; but he must learn the…"
Nov 19, 2011
NavyDads Group Admin, Gary left a comment for David Kane
"David he will succeed! The first 48 hours in bootcamp is hell. Their world as they know it have been turned upside down. We've been through this experience not too long ago and but it will get better as they begin to adjust and start to…"
Nov 19, 2011
David Kane commented on NavyDads Admin (Paul)'s video
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US Navy Week in Review Nov. 12-18

"What a beautiful video. I hate to admit it; but I definitely got choked up just imagining my son, Scott; going through all this. He has been dormant for so many years. Muscles have not been used, so I know how sore he is. Oh God, did I try and try…"
Nov 19, 2011
David Kane left a comment for NavyDads Co-Admin, Tim
"Hi Tim, Thank you for the big HELLO. The website is very impressive. I will be spending a lot of time there. Thanks, Dave"
Nov 18, 2011
David Kane left a comment for NavyDads Admin (Paul)
"Hi Paul, I know what you mean and I have gotten off 2 (one very long) letters. I had been writing just a bit each day figuring the letter would eventually show up. Of course he writes to his mother. Remember the Bill Cosby standup (Himself) where…"
Nov 18, 2011
NavyDads Admin (Paul) left a comment for David Kane
"it's our pleasure to help David and you'll find the rest of NavyDads just as open and welcoming!!!"
Nov 18, 2011
NavyDads Admin (Paul) and David Kane are now friends
Nov 18, 2011
NavyDads Admin (Paul) left a comment for David Kane
"Laughing about that!! Know the feeling of nerves after having two go through RTC!  It is the timed run that presents the biggest hurdle...."
Nov 18, 2011
David Kane left a comment for NavyDads Admin (Paul)
"Hi Paul, I did find what I have been looking for. Please forgive my haste. Just another nervous Father. The part about being ready for the physical part? You have no idea how I tried in numerous methods to coax him to get prepared. Push ups. Do them…"
Nov 18, 2011
NavyDads Admin (Paul) left a comment for David Kane
"click that link and you can watch by clicking the play arrow for each video on that page..."
Nov 18, 2011

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My Sailor's first name (Please do not post SEAL names)
Scott
Describe a little about yourself:
Served in the Viet Nam war 66 - 68 US Army
Drafted right out of high school. My son, Scott, upon the urging of his Mom joined up for a 5 year commitment. I told him "everything" that I went through in Basic; but nothing registered. Now he is shitting in his pants. His second week ends tomorrow. Nobody can help him. Please make him stick this out.
Prior Military Experience
Vietnam Veteran
What brought you to this site:
My son is recently enlisted (before PIR)
What were your feelings when your Sailor joined the Navy:
I did and still do think it will make a man out of him. He has done nothing to prepare for this.
What is your relationship with your sailor
Dad
Please share: how did you find us?
He wrote his mother and she posted his mailing address on Facebook. She said he desperately needs some letters from home. She said during our brief conversation about this site.

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At 5:49pm on November 19, 2011, NavyDads Group Admin, Gary said…

My son had similar sleeping habits prior to boot camp. RTC will no doubt fix that and he will learn the ways and to do what needs to be done to the best of his abilities. The one huge difference is that it's not just about himself anymore but about working as a division team...

At 5:13pm on November 19, 2011, NavyDads Group Admin, Gary said…

David he will succeed! The first 48 hours in bootcamp is hell. Their world as they know it have been turned upside down. We've been through this experience not too long ago and but it will get better as they begin to adjust and start to understand their purpose, to learn the culture and to do what it takes to be a US Sailor. Hang in there and have faith. Write to him letters of encouragement and support daily if possible...

At 9:51pm on November 18, 2011, NavyDads Admin (Paul) said…

it's our pleasure to help David and you'll find the rest of NavyDads just as open and welcoming!!!

At 5:58pm on November 18, 2011, NavyDads Admin (Paul) said…

Laughing about that!! Know the feeling of nerves after having two go through RTC!  It is the timed run that presents the biggest hurdle....

At 5:41pm on November 18, 2011, NavyDads Admin (Paul) said…

click that link and you can watch by clicking the play arrow for each video on that page...

At 2:26pm on November 18, 2011, NavyDads Admin (Paul) said…

BTW- there is an awesome series of videos that allow to see to what is going on in Bootcamp and what your sailor is learning and doing: http://www.navydads.com/forum/topics/return-to-bootcamp

At 2:18pm on November 18, 2011, NavyDads Admin (Paul) said…

the 48 hour thing resets everyone's internal clock to RTC time...and for about the first two weeks they ALL are thinking "why did I do this...." then things start to settle into a routine and seem to work out for the vast majority.  Keep the faith....stay positive...try to avoid the lectures in the letters and deal more with news about home....news items...sports thing like that....and before you know it it will be PIR time!!!

At 12:13pm on November 18, 2011, NavyDads Co-Admin, Tim said…

Welcome aboard David.
I would like to take this time to point you in some of the right directions. For starters if you haven't had the time take a look at the right side of any page you click on. There you will find some useful information for you. The links under the about this site will help you with how this site got started, navigation, PIR, About us, community guidelines and some links to some of the groups that beginners with a lot of questions will find very useful. There is also a link called Navy Enlisted Ratings, this link will take you to a brief description of the rates (jobs) in the Navy that you can find your sailors rate and find out some information about the rate that they are in.
First and foremost though we are all here for the same reason. We are curious about what our young sailors are getting into and for more information about the rate or job that they will be doing for the next 4-6 yrs of their lives. I know when I first got here I had lots of questions and there was not a lot of people on this site but they all were either going through the same thing or had been through it and had sailors out in the fleet. Now this site has grown to over 4000 members, Dads, Moms, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, sisters, brothers, girlfriends and boyfriends. Don't be afraid to ask questions of members in here because somewhere along the way we have all had the same questions and asked. There are a lot of knowledgeable people on this site with various years of experience in the NAVY either on their own account or through their Sailors.
Again welcome aboard and BRAVO ZULU to you and your son Scott on his enlistment and please thank him for me for making the choice to defend the freedoms that my family, this country and I have and enjoy.
Navy dads Co-admin Tim

At 9:45pm on November 17, 2011, NavyDads Group Admin, Gary said…

Greetings David! My son recently joined the Navy and I really had no idea or a clue on what he’s about to partake in besides what I’ve seen on tv and some stories told by friends and relatives. I am honored and very proud of his decision to serve our country.


I’ve perused recruiter literature from DEP and beyond but I felt that I needed more information to keep me from worrying too much. I also wanted to hear from real folks on what their experiences were like and what they've gone through. That's when I found this website while searching for answers.


I hope you too will find NavyDads.Com useful with lots of real shared information. Our family extends our warmest thanks to you and your son Scott for your service.


Welcome aboard...

 

At 9:07pm on November 17, 2011, NavyDads Admin (Paul) said…

Welcome to NavyDads.com David! When my daughter enlisted in 2005 and left for RTC, I had virtually no knowledge of Navy life or how the Navy did things. By the time her PIR rolled around, I was starting to get the hang of things and understand some of the language and abbreviations, but still felt like a fish out of water when dealing with most topics concerning the US Navy. When my son enlisted and left for Great Lakes in 2007, I got serious about trying to learn as much as possible about the Navy. Now, several years into my journey, I’m blessed to say I have two sailors in the family - my son Eric (AM3) was on the carrier Theodore Roosevelt (CVN-71) and just reported to Helicopter Squadron Light-37 (HSL-37) in Hawaii after re-enlisting earlier this year. My daughter Kat is now a Navy veteran and was stationed on the carrier Abraham Lincoln (CVN-72) as a Mass Communications Specialist and is currently using her GI benefits to go to school. If NavyDads.com were around in those days, it would have made my journey as a Navy parent much easier!

I'm sure you'll find NavyDads.com as useful, educational and informative as I have over the past few years. I hope you take the time to explore the site and make some new friends. Read the discussions and add your comments. Browse through the postings in the various groups or start a new one. If you have any comments, questions or concerns about your sailor and what he is going through...be sure to post them! In my experience someone here can answer your questions or concerns or can point you in the direction to find out. And David this is a great place to brag as well! So join in, get active, and be sure to let us know how Scott is doing! Please remember that we talk about the Navy here and we must keep the security and safety of our sailors and the fleet in mind. On the right or starboard side of every NavyDads page is an area we call About This Site. Please take a minute and read through the Operations Security (OPSEC) link for some guidelines as to what we should not talk about in a public forum like NavyDads.com.

As a parent of a sailor currently or soon to be at Great Lakes you'll have many questions about what your son is going through. In the Navy Bootcamp group is a discussion called A MUST READ for all New Navy Parents. Read through this post as it will do a lot to give you some understanding about what your sailor is learning and why. And be sure to check out the videos available in the Bootcamp Group as well.

As PIR draws closer, be sure to spend some time going through the PIR-Tips, Hints and Helps group- we’ve tried to assemble some tips and suggestions to make your sailor's PIR more enjoyable.

Play the following video for a brief introduction to NavyDads.com. We've made some cosmetic changes to the site since this video was made, but navigation remains the same. Best Regards- Paul

 
 
 

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