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My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!

Started this discussion. Last reply by NavyDads Admin (Paul) Jun 24, 2011. 20 Replies

My son leaves for boot on the 14th of June and its really , tearing me apart.I thought i could handle it but i cant stop crying . Since I droped him off at his moms tonight.I have`nt stopped crying…Continue

 

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joe johnston liked Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
Jun 26, 2011
James L. Henderson replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"Tony, my youngest son left for the Air Force last year and my wife and I were beside ourselves until we saw him at graduation from BMT. It will get better once you hear from him, which usually takes a few weeks. I think mostly we just want our kids…"
Jun 22, 2011
Gil replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"Wow, the heart of a true father!! Be strong and stay strong, the next 8 weeks are going to be tough because of the mistery of not knowing much about the progress of your son from your son, but in this page you will find the comfort to hold…"
Jun 17, 2011
Gil liked Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
Jun 17, 2011
keith chambers replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"its so very hard to watch your child go but it must happen. there are so many bad ways they can leave home so be thankful. for your son it is important to write. i wrote every day. somedays letters somedays i sent funny cards with notes inside. its…"
Jun 17, 2011
Cheri (L.A. FT Mom) replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"When I left my son after bootcamp graduation I was sad but fine but when I left is sub school graduation and he asked me when I was going to see him again and I replied, "I don't know," I crumbled.  I cried while driving to the…"
Jun 17, 2011
Ray Norberto replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"When my wife and I dropped our son Chris off at the recruiting station to take the ride to MEPS in Fort Hamilton and get sworn in, I thought I would be fine too. The minute we stepped foot inside, and were greeted by the recruiting officers, my…"
Jun 17, 2011
Ray Clark replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"Tony trust me it WILL get easier and the time will fly.  My daughter just graduated on 10 June and it really went by fast.  Key is to write to your son but realize that he will not have a lot of time to write back so do not get discouraged…"
Jun 15, 2011
Robert L. Babcock replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"Tony,take it from experience Boot Camp will go faster then you think.In about 4 weeks there going to send you Graduation info from Great lakes,your Son will Also call you  on how he is doing.It was the hardest thing I had to go through,but…"
Jun 15, 2011
Timothy Conway replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"What Cheri wrote is so very true.  As a parent (I believe) it's your job, no your responsibility to stay positive for him.  I may seem like you far apart and there is nothing you do but that's just not true.  If you…"
Jun 15, 2011
Cheri (L.A. FT Mom) replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"Here is some real good advice.  What ever you do when you do speak to or write a letter to your son stay positive.  Even if there is something going on that is really bad don't tell them.  They are too vulnerable and bad news…"
Jun 15, 2011
Tony L. Davis replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"Dont seem like it i know hes in gd hands the navy wont kill him just hard to deal with him not being here, he will be a man when its over,It will b hard on him because of his grandfathers  passing anniversary thats July the 20 My sons b-day is…"
Jun 15, 2011
Tony L. Davis replied to Tony L. Davis's discussion My son leaves for boot camp tuesday the 14th of june and its killing me!!!!!!!!!!
"Ty u for all the info and support i really need it<Ill take any help that i can get and if i can help in any way plz let me know>"
Jun 15, 2011
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I`m a Dad that is signing up for ssi disability,due to my asthma and severe COPD . My son means the world to me. we like to work on cars together when hes down.
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My son is recently enlisted (before PIR)
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At first I thought he was doin it to get away from me . But not the case, I told him that i was behind him 100%,but it would be hard .
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At 8:53am on June 14, 2011, NavyDads Co-Admin, Tim said…
Welcome aboard Tony.
I would like to take this time to point you in some of the right directions. For starters if you haven't had the time take a look at the right side of any page you click on. There you will find some useful information for you. The links under the about this site will help you with how this site got started, navigation, PIR, About us, community guidelines and some links to some of the groups that beginners with a lot of questions will find very useful. There is also a link called Navy Enlisted Ratings, this link will take you to a brief description of the rates (jobs) in the Navy that you can find your sailors rate and find out some information about the rate that they are in.
First and foremost though we are all here for the same reason. We are curious about what our young sailors are getting into and for more information about the rate or job that they will be doing for the next 4-6 yrs of their lives. I know when I first got here I had lots of questions and there was not a lot of people on this site but they all were either going through the same thing or had been through it and had sailors out in the fleet. Now this site has grown to over 2000 members, Dads, Moms, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, sisters, brothers, girlfriends and boyfriends. Don't be afraid to ask questions of members in here because somewhere along the way we have all had the same questions and asked. There are a lot of knowledgeable people on this site with various years of experience in the NAVY either on their own account or through their Sailors.
Again welcome aboard and BRAVO ZULU to you and your son Michael on his enlistment and please thank him for me for making the choice to defend the freedoms that my family, this country and I have and enjoy.
Navy dads Co-admin Tim
At 7:57pm on June 13, 2011, NavyDads Co-Admin, Jim said…

Welcome aboard Tony! I'm so glad that you've joined us. I can't add very much to what’s already been said, but wanted to pop in here and say hello. My son Stephen is an AWO2 and flies with VP-45 on the P-3 Orion Sub Hunter and is stationed in Jacksonville, FL. Be sure to join the groups that will follow what Michael is doing with the Navy. If you have questions as a new parent of a sailor, or just want to keep up with others who are “veteran” dads, you can find what you're looking for here. See you around the fleet!

Jim                                                                                                   

At 8:46pm on June 12, 2011, NavyDads Admin (Paul) said…
Welcome to NavyDads.com Tony! I'm sure you'll find NavyDads as useful, educational and informative as I have. Please explore the site and make some new friends. Read the discussions and add your comments. Browse through the postings in the various groups or start a new one. If you have any comments, questions or concerns about your sailor and what he is going through...be sure to post them! In my experience someone here can answer your questions or concerns or can point you in the direction to find out. I'm blessed to have two sailors in the family - my son Eric (AM3) was stationed on the carrier Theodore Roosevelt (CVN-71) and just re-enlisted, and my daughter Kat is a Navy vet and was stationed on the carrier Abraham Lincoln (CVN-72). And Tony this is a great place to brag as well! So join in, get active, and be sure to let us know how Michael is doing! Please remember that we talk about the Navy here and we must keep the security and safety of our sailors and the fleet in mind. On the right or starboard side of every NavyDads page is an area we call About This Site. Please take a minute and read through the Operations Security (OPSEC) link for some guidelines as to what we should not talk about in a public forum.

As a parent of a sailor currently or soon to be at Great Lakes you'll have many questions about what your son is going through. In the Navy Bootcamp group is a discussion called A MUST READ for all New Navy Parents. Read through this post as it will do a lot to give you some understanding about what your sailor is learning and why. And be sure to check out the videos available in the Bootcamp Group as well.

As PIR draws closer, be sure to spend some time going through the PIR-Tips, Hints and Helps group- we’ve tried to assemble some tips and suggestions to make your sailor's PIR more enjoyable. Best Regards- Paul
At 8:45pm on June 12, 2011, NavyDads Admin (Paul) said…
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At 8:28pm on June 12, 2011, NavyDads Co-Admin, Calvin said…
Tony, Welcome to NavyDads. My Grandson Joined the Navy and went to Boot Camp in February, 2008. When I joined I knew nothing about the Military and this site has really helped me understand what to expect and has relieved some of the worries I had. Please go to the Groups Page and check out all of the different Groups and join in to learn more about what you Guy or Gal will be learning and doing. We are a big family here and you can find answers to most any question or concern you may have regarding what is in store for you recruit. You will find others that are new to the Navy along with those that have Loved Ones that has been in for some time. We like to hear about you recruit the good times, the concerns and the questions. I think you will find that our member are just a great big family and everyone wants to help others understand what to expect and hear how your recruit is doing.

Please feel free to ask question.

Again Welcome and keep us updated as to you recruit’s progress.

HooYah US Navy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
 
 

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